【Interview with Berlingske】
Loneliness Sweeping Through Men — The Rise of the Loneliness Economy

When users log into Asia’s largest adult platform SWAG, they are not always seeking explicit content. For some, what they truly desire is companionship — and they are willing to pay for it. Experts suggest there are deeper social reasons behind this phenomenon.
Each time 27-year-old creator Neinei begins her live stream on SWAG, she is greeted by a familiar group of followers eagerly awaiting her appearance on screen. Yet for many of them, it is not nudity that draws them in, but conversation.
“They mostly just want to talk,” she said. “And I’m good at that.”

Blending Traditional and New Forms of Interaction
According to research by anthropologist Dixon Wong, many Asian men tend to hold specific gender expectations, often assuming a dominant role in sexual relationships. Asian adult films traditionally differ from Western productions, frequently portraying women as passive rather than assertive participants.
This cultural framework extends onto SWAG’s platform. Beyond conventional adult content, SWAG emphasizes interactive experiences enabled through virtual “diamonds,” allowing users to chat with creators or request specific actions.
The Rise of Loneliness and Digital Companionship
Professor Chen Mei-hua of National Sun Yat-sen University noted that many Taiwanese men once relied on phone sex services for emotional connection. Today, those needs have increasingly shifted to online live-stream interactions.
SWAG offers a more convenient and affordable alternative — particularly appealing to shy men who feel uncomfortable approaching women in person.
The Evolution of Online Companionship
Chen further explained that in the past, Taiwanese men frequently visited hostess bars, where women provided companionship through drinking and conversation in exchange for payment, often indirectly through expensive alcohol purchases.
Today, similar forms of emotional engagement have migrated online to platforms like SWAG, where live streaming now fulfills comparable social and emotional functions.
Loneliness and Cultural Context
Globally, loneliness has become a widespread issue. A report by The New York Times found that nearly half of Americans describe themselves as lonely — a trend mirrored in Taiwan.
Young heterosexual men in particular are more likely to experience isolation due to difficulties forming relationships.
Professor Heather Berg from the University of California observed that rising loneliness has driven more men to seek simulated emotional connections through platforms like SWAG.
“This trend feels very natural,” she explained. “Women are often socialized to provide emotional support — whether for free or for pay.”
Between Emotion and Transaction
SWAG creators offer more than traditional adult content; many provide emotional companionship. While such interactions may be virtual, for lonely men they can serve as a tangible way to fill emotional gaps.
“For many young men, live streaming is a low-pressure and affordable alternative,” Berg added. “They can avoid face-to-face awkwardness while still meeting emotional needs.”
A New Social Model
In cultures such as Taiwan and Japan, companionship-based services have long existed through hostess bars and similar industries. SWAG has digitalized these models through technology, enabling men to interact with women online more easily.
For those lacking social confidence or courage, such platforms offer a new option — paid companionship that simulates emotional connection. For creators, the work carries both financial opportunity and the burden of emotional labor.
Loneliness as a Global Phenomenon
Analysis by Psychology Today highlights loneliness as an increasingly global issue, particularly among young heterosexual men.
Heather Berg noted that many men feel isolated due to difficulties forming relationships, fueling growing demand for virtual emotional support.
“These platforms allow people to fill emotional voids in certain ways,” she said. “It’s a natural development.
Article Source:Berlingske https://www.berlingske.dk/internationalt/maendene-har-det-svaert-med-kvinder-men-i-de-voksnes-disneyland-har
Text:Alexander Sjöberg
Photography:Alexander Sjöberg